The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
Mystery, Chris Odom
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"One of the most admired men in the world of seduction" (The New York Times) teaches average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful women
For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Mystery, considered by many to be the world's greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world's most beautiful women. Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss's New York Times bestselling exposé, The Game. Now he has written the definitive handbook on the art of the pickup.
He developed his unique method over years of observing social dynamics and interacting with women in clubs to learn how to overcome the guard shield that many women use to deflect come-ons from "average frustrated chumps."
The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed shares tips such as:
*Give more attention to her less attractive friend at first, so your target will get jealous and try to win your attention.
*Always approach a target within 3 seconds of noticing her. If a woman senses your hesitation, her perception of your value will be lower.
*Don't be picky. Approach as many groups of people in a bar as you can and entertain them with fun conversation. As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. Now it's easy to meet anyone you want.
*Smile. Guys who don't get laid, don't smile.
friends’ example suggests, try wearing at least one item of clothing curious looking enough to get people’s attention. It may be used as a lock-in prop, which I will discuss further in chapter 6. What’s more, it will allow women to comment, for good or bad, if they wish to strike up a conversation. For example, if you’re talking to a woman and she senses the conversation winding down, she may suddenly say, “Oh, that’s a cool necklace.” This is her way of continuing the interaction in a perfectly
with her, or otherwise engage her on a logical level. What a woman likes, or says she likes, is not necessarily what she responds to emotionally (and thus sexually.) If a woman remains nonresponsive, that means she is deliberately cutting you off from gaming her. A woman will not allow herself to become emotionally vulnerable around you if you haven’t demonstrated enough value or if she doesn’t feel safe enough. Peacocking is the use of attention-getting clothes to amplify your responses in
interrupts in A1 and A2. Wait until the drinks are paid for and served.) When you open this set, the girls will have their backs to the bar. They will see the entire room behind you, over your shoulder. But you will see nothing except the bar behind them. There is a slight power differential in your positions. As long as they are comfortable in their spots at the bar, with a superior line of sight, and you are slightly less comfortable standing before them, there will be a leak of social power
although most of the time people are not consciously aware of the IOIs they are giving off. There are also indicators of disinterest, or IODs. When a person gives an IOD, she conveys disinterest and an unwillingness to invest in the interaction. A neg is an innocuous statement that only an uninterested party would say. Negs are actually a form of IOD. There are three types of negs: the shotgun neg, which conveys lack of interest and disarms the group; the tease neg, which is cocky and playful
friends talked her out of it. Maybe her cat just died. Leave her a message and call the next girl. Go out practicing tonight. This is a lifestyle. DATING (FROM “MYSTERY’S LOUNGE”— LOVEDROP’S ARTICLE ON DATING) At some point in my game, I discovered that it was really easy to get isolated with a girl. I could game up a set, get a number, call her a few days later, and soon she would be sitting on my bed watching a movie with me. But the problem was, I hadn’t done enough A3 or comfort in order